Thursday, July 31, 2008

Chicago Pictures

People have been asking me for a year for pictures of my place and the city. I finally got around to taking some decent pictures, which are below and include helpful captions.


The courtyard between the front building and back building. The screen door in the middle of the picture is my front door. The black & white cat, as well at the two cats sitting behind the screen door, are the three kitties who run our apartment.


The 290 Expressway. I walk over this every day on the way to my college. This is about half a mile to the East of my apartment.


The view as I walk from my college to my job on East Campus. Again, this is roughly half a mile to the East of my apartment and I get this view almost every day.



The view from the center of my campus, looking East.


I have to admit that the pictures make it look very pretty.

~g

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Favorite Songs

"Almost Home" Mary Chapin Carpenter
"Anyway" Martina McBride
"Mary, Did You Know?" Kathy Mattea
"Shower the People" James Taylor
"The Change" Garth Brooks
"We Shall Be Free" Garth Brooks
"End of My Journey" Harry Stewart
"Don't Give Up" Josh Groban
"O Holy Night" Martina McBride
"Everyday" Kim English
"What A Wonderful World" Louie Armstrong
"Singin' In the Rain" Gene Kelley
"Heal the World" Micheal Jackson
"Man in the Mirror" Micheal Jackson
"True Companion" Marc Cohn
"She's Becoming Gold" Marc Cohn
"We Can Get There" Mary Griffen
"My Place in this World" Michael W. Smith
"Proud" Heather Small
"Fields of Gold" Sting
"The Boys Are Back in Town" Thin Lizzy
"The Riddle" Five for Fighting
"Waiting for my Real Life to Begin" Colin Hay
"The Wedding Song" Kenny G
"I Believe" Blessed Union of Souls
"The Vision" Bill Miller
"Mary's Eyes" Gaelic Storm

And that's the short list....

~g

No Show

Daley did not show up this morning.

His entourage did, as well as some press, but not him. No forewarning, either - he just flat out did not show up.

So much for the catered food and the new floors that were installed just for him (the college would argue that point, saying the floors were scheduled to be redone anyway. They just moved up on the schedule a lot of spaces when Daley said he would be coming by).

I did find out what the meeting was about. He was to have met with a professor in Urban Planning who has done a lot of research regarding Chicago's readiness and capabilities for handling the 2016 Olympics. Apparently Daley does not care as much about Chicago's Olympic bid as he says he does. Nor does he seem to respect experts in institutions of higher learning.

I got a new kitchen fixture today! And my shower will be replaced shortly! And the walls painted! And the carpet will be professionally cleaned tomorrow!

I like new things.

Mary Chapin Carpenter's "Almost Home" = Absolutely Fantastic

For an awesome waste of time go here: http://icanhascheezburger.com/

~g

Monday, July 28, 2008

THE Daley

So, if everything goes according to plan tomorrow (Tuesday) I may be one of the few who is blessed enough to gaze upon the formidable Mayor Daley in person.

Apparently he and his entourage will be dropping by my college for about 10 minutes to receive information of some sort from one of the esteemed professors. I have no clue what the meeting is about, but I've got the connections that will let me know when Daley is going to be there. I was already planning on being in the building to use the computer lab, so I will just have to drop downstairs for a few minutes. The meeting is closed, but the hallways are not restricted!

I'm just trying to have another Chicago experience. We'll see how it goes.

Term paper coming along nicely. Down to my personal opinion and interpretation. I will easily finish it tomorrow and have time to spare for studying. Yayy for time management!

It was HOT here today! Uber hot! Stupid humidity and concrete.

I made my travel plans for the fall semester today. I will be back in good 'ol Iowa over Labor Day weekend to renew my license and pick up a few things. Then back again mid-October for a dental appointment. I also have the day before Thanksgiving off so I can be traveling to where ever I will be, although I may not actually leave the city. Mom and I had grand Thanksgiving plans for last year that got royally messed up when I came down with a bad chest infection. I had planned on staying in the city last year to see the Thanksgiving Day parade and eat out. Maybe we'll do that this year! Or maybe I will go see Marshall and Sarah! The possibilities are endless.

I washed my sheets this morning and I am thinking it is about time I put them back on the bed so I can be crawling in and curling up.

Less than 24 hours until a potential Daley sighting. Pins and needles....

~g

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Floors, Pt 2

After the troubles with the scheduling for the floors we thought we would have to wait a few weeks on the hardwoods. Not so! This past Wednesday I talked with my landlord (Mike... he's a good dude) about the time line for repairs and he says, "Can you be ready for the flooring guys Friday morning?" He caught me off guard but I wasn't about to pass it up, so I said sure. We hadn't moved anything back so it was just a matter of getting the rest of the room emptied Thursday night. Angela and I tackled it and had the room cleared out in just over 2 hours. Except for the sofa. We left that for the flooring guys to handle.

Bright and early Friday morning our bell was ringing. Angela was long gone to work and I was running out the door. I had enough time to hold the front door open while they moved the couch and tell them to avoid opening the door to the bedroom that held all three cats and I was gone. Returned around 6 that night to a whole new floor and LOTS of fumes. Saturday morning they were back to put on the second coat, so Angela and I kicked around our area of the city all day.

One thing I learned this weekend - when you are forced out of your home and have to stay away for a designated period of time all you want to do is go home.

We hit up Panera first for breakfast and free WiFi. Spent about an hour and a half working before we both decided Panera's air conditioning was just too much for us to handle. We were in a little shopping complex neither of us had taken the time to check out, so once we left Panera we walked around a bit. Then back into the car and back home to see if there was any way we could sneak in and get sweaters. No such luck.

We hung around a bit before heading down to Taylor Street for lunch at Potbellys (Think Quiznos but WAY WAY WAY better). After lunch we headed a block down the street to the local hardware store to get felt pads for our furniture. We knew we would need them once we could move things back onto the floor.

After that it was into the car and over to the west of the hospital complex to a family bakery for some cannoli. Angela has been telling me for a year I need to try this stuff. It lived up to her hype, although it was not nearly as good as my first experience with cannoli two years ago in Colorado. From there it was up to the West Loop area to browse Blockbuster and then sit in Starbucks for a bit doing more studying.

We had to park the car a few blocks from the Blockbuster and Starbucks. We were parked directly across the street from Harpo Studios - home of the Oprah Winfrey Show. Let me tell you, that place is not impressive. It's a giant warehouse surrounded by other giant warehouses. On our walk to Blockbuster we passed the Oprah store. Out of curiosity we stopped in, stayed for all of 30 seconds, then left. It was a ridiculous shrine to Oprah that you could pay an arm and leg for to take home. I am not as enamored with Oprah as others are. I think she's overrated.

Anyway, we stayed at Starbucks for a bit but headed back to the car when the time ran out on the meter. We decided to just come home, thinking we would sit in the courtyard for the hour or so more we were to wait before walking on the floor. Mike was out front when we pulled up, so we stood and talked with him for a bit. He introduced us to the new tenants in the apartment above us - a girl named Sarah, a boy named Justin, and another boy named Joe. From what I gathered in the few minutes we spent talking yesterday I think they will be decent neighbors.

Mike was as antsy as us to check on the floors, so we threw the door open and started feeling around about 4:30, and found, much to our delight, the floors weren't nearly as tacky as we expected. This was good, since it meant we didn't have to wait to walk on them. Yayy!

Angela came in and went straight to bed for a nap. I went straight to the kitchen to start cleaning up the huge mess the sanding had left behind. Everything needed to be washed, even the dishes in the cupboard. Thank goodness we have a dishwasher that can do large loads!

I kept up the cleaning and reclaiming of the kitchen today. Everything is now washed and back in its rightful place. I even got Angela to agree to let me throw out the pots and pans that are not fit for cooking anymore. We put them in the alley for the scavengers to take.

We got our couch back in the living room, the "entertainment center" (really, it's a table with a drawer that the TV and stereo sit on) back, the coffee tables and end tables, as well as the glass hutch put back. The living room portion of that room is completely back the way it should be. The north end, typically thought of as the entry way although it's just as big as the living room portion, is still empty. The walls in that portion of the room need some painting to repair water damage from the apartment above us. That should happen sometime in the coming week or so. Even when it's done it will be a bit before the north end is put back together. The furniture that was there is not coming back. Instead, Angela has decided it is time to purchase a storage hutch. Once she decides which one she wants, she will order it. We just need to time its arrival for coincide with the completion of the apartment repairs, as well as a visit from her boyfriend so he can assemble it for us.

In the coming weeks the following will happen in my apartment:
1. The kitchen light will be replaced
2. The entire place will be cleaned by a hired cleaning lady
3. The carpets will be professionally cleaned
4. My shower will be replaced
5. The walls will be repainted/ touched up
6. The courtyard landscaping will be redone/ finished
7. We will reclaim our storage space and move old furniture into it
8. We will get new furniture
9. We will get a new roommate
10. We will have an entirely new apartment

As far as the roommate goes, we had a girl by today to take a look at the place. Her name is Quince, she's from North Carolina, and she's moving to Chicago for law school. We liked her and hope she liked us. We'll know by Wednesday if she will be our new roommate or if we need to keep looking. Keep your fingers crossed.

Things I learned about myself through all of the apartment repairs:
I do not like unclear itineraries
I do not care for chaos
I don't like mess
I need things put back to normal as quickly as possible after disruption
I prefer minimalism in possessions
I do not like being kicked out my home
I can be incredibly polite even when inconvenienced
I do not care for eating out every meal of the day
I am unsettled by change
Others can find a good portion of these traits annoying

Around all of this I have been working on a term paper for my legal context course. That's not due until Wednesday and I'm just over half way through, so I'm feeling pretty good. I only work a few hours tomorrow and have all of Tuesday off, so finishing it will not be a problem.

Get this - the sexual harassment portion of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 was added at the last minute by Southerns in an effort to highlight the ridiculousness of an anti discrimination law. Furthermore, the provision was meant to derail the legislation and keep it from passing.

Worked well, didn't it?

If you have a free minute, check out this website: http://www.postcardsfromyomomma.com/
It is hilarious! I have even sent in portions of emails from my mom, and they published one on the site this past weekend. "Drifting Mind" belongs to none other than Ms. Tanjala Jo Kole.

With that, it is time to wrap this up and get back to my paper.

~g

Saturday, July 19, 2008

No New Floors

My hardwood floors were supposed to be refinished today and tomorrow but we found out last night that the floor guys took another job and pushed back our apartment on the schedule. Our landlord isn't too happy, but what is there to do?

Summer classes are quickly coming to an end. There are a few weeks left, but I know they will pass quickly. In the meantime I am focusing on the papers and tests and work. I can hardly believe how fast summer is passing and how soon my final year of higher education will commence. Life moves at such an amazing rate.

I have recently developed quite a taste for green tea. It is replacing my pop addiction, which I suppose is not all bad. Is it possible to drink to much and remove all the health benefits?

Angela and I are still looking for a roommate to fill the empty room in our apartment. So far none of those who have come by to look at the place have been right. I am having faith the right person will find us soon. In the meantime we are using the extra room for storage. We began moving the living room/ entryway items up there a few days ago in anticipation of the floor work. Our main living area is a little empty but in some ways I do not mind as it is simpler and less chaotic. I have discovered the older I get the less I like being surrounded by a multitude of purposeless, meaningless things.

Life in general is moving along. I'm still alive and hard at it and I can't ask for much more than that.

~g

Monday, July 14, 2008

Is it really mind over matter?

It is no secret the past year of my life has been challenging. My mom, especially, has had to deal with my moaning and complaining and overall despondency. I knew when I made the choice to come to Chicago for grad school that it would be difficult. I just didn't know how difficult.

I am not pity-partying myself. I am not looking for attention or benevolence. I am just trying to understand. How it is possible to have such a strong visceral reaction to a place? Is it possible location can alter personality? Is there such a thing as mind over matter or are some forces too strong to be ignored, much less overcome?

I feel, regrettably, that I have become a much more negative person in the last year. While I have bemoaned the impolite cops, the scoundrels and hooligans, the forceful street beggars, the purse snatchers, the sewer system, and the traffic I have also been fair in highlighting Chicago's more positive attributes. I can walk 3 blocks south from my apartment to Taylor Street and indulge in a plethora of worldly cuisine. Thai noodles today, authentic Italian tomorrow, homemade Mexican the next day, and New York size slices of pizza and a 16 oz. soda for $4 just about any time day or night.

Every morning as I walk to work I an mere blocks from the Sears Tower. I've strolled along Michigan Avenue, gazed upon the famous Marshall Fields Tiffany ceiling, attended the old German Christmas Market on Daley Plaza, stood in Millennium Park in the sun of summer and the snows of winter, arrived and departed trains at Union Station, sat in the Great Hall, rocketed to the top of the Hancock Building to meander the classic Signature Room, explored the Museum of Contemporary Art, and reflected in majestic churches.

Obviously, I know there is good in Chicago. I know, years from now when I am in a different place doing a different thing, I will reflect on my time here with a sense of nostalgia and understanding of the growth that is occurring.

I can appreciate it, but do I have to like it? I can accept it, but do I have to espouse it?

How do I reconcile the person the city requires me to be with the person I want to become? When I am in the city I am purposeful, direct, wary, vigilant, suspect, forceful, cynical, and bit angry. It's impossible to know who to trust and who is going to smile at you one minute and pick your pocket the next. There is hardly a moment when I can let down my guard. It's exhausting. And it's such a constant state that I worry it is fast becoming a part of my personality, rather than the role I need to play.

As I have become increasingly worried about the person I am I have begun to cling to the philosophy "Be Subject to One Another". I do not want to be so self-focused. I do not want to walk by others and not see them. I do not want to live solely for myself or clutch my purse tighter or avert my eyes or glance behind every 10 steps.

I want a purpose. I want to serve. I want to accept and love. I want to make a difference. I want to be subject to others.

Am I strong enough to do this?

~g

Joining the Blogging World

So, I have found myself checking Marshall and Sarah's blog (http://marshallandsarah.blogspot.com/) nearly every day and have come to the conclusion it is both an easy and fun way to keep those who care updated about goings-on. That was a lengthy sentence. Anyway, I am going to try out the same method and perhaps can avoid the annual, incredibly long update email.

I am officially over half-way done with graduate school. As much as it seems to be dragging, I really cannot believe how quickly the time is going and how soon I will be joining the "adult" world. I am terrified, excited, apprehensive, and a myriad of other emotions about the pending changes. I know May 8, 2009 is going to come much sooner than I think and I know the next few months are going to be full of life-altering decisions. Despite this, I do not feel prepared at all to make any of them; I feel like an 18-year-old only playing at adulthood. When will that feeling go away? When will I feel my age?

Many more imminent changes are occurring in my life. I have a new boss at work who is both challenging and engaging. I will be getting a new roommate as soon as we find one. My hardwood floors are being refinished in less than a week. And at some point I will be getting haircut. Exciting times.

With that, I conclude my first post. It's very late (or very early, depending on how you choose to look at it) and I have to be on campus for 13 hours tomorrow. Got to love the life of a student.

~g